Why is swearing so unattractive? Is it because you feel that when a woman swears it shows lack of intelligence? Or does this unattractive rule apply to both men and women?

Swearing is unattractive because it shows a lack of intelligence. If you picked up on what I was saying.. It wouldn’t matter if a guy swore.. because I’m not attracted to guys, yeah wow.. big suprise. If I have a choice of picking friends who swear etc, I choose friends who don’t. In some cases I’d rather have no friends at all than friends that think they need to swear all the time. Even if they don’t do it all the time.. I’m still against it.. and try to not get involved with those people.

If for some reason you feel it is acceptable for a man to swear, what is the difference in a woman? Because women are supposed to be more frail and feminine than a man?

And for some reason.. I don’t feel it is acceptable for a man to swear. Again – This was UNattractive. I’m not attracted to guys. Clue yourself in – please. What you are getting at is nothing like what was said.

And, I’m not sure what you are upset about with your girlfriend. You say that the only thing she takes seriously is sex, and you say that she is waiting for marriage. Does this bother you that she wants to wait? Or does it bother you that you feel that the only thing she takes seriously is sex? You are a bit vague on the details here. Isn’t sex a serious thing? Especially if it is your first time (I am assuming this is the case, sex is like candy, once you have it you have to have more and before you do you don’t know what you are missing so no harm done)

You? I need not explain myself to you. What the heck – I have some free time on my hands. It doesn’t bother me that she wants to wait… it bothers me that the only thing she seemed to take seriously was sex. A bit vague.. but who really reads this? You and a few others.. But you?… A complete stranger to me by the screen name. Sex – the Act of love. Should only happen when you are with your mate. You know.. by mate.. I mean you should be married before you have sex. Then sure.. have sex all you want with that Person. Nobody else. Its not a game where you can go screwing anyone you want to. Sorry.. it doesn’t work that way. Don’t believe me? Ask Magic Johnson.

One last thing for Enquiring Minds. Why do you want to be with someone if you just want them to change? What did you love about your girlfriend when you first got with her? What changed from then to now?

Why? I put God before everything else in my life. We can not be unequeally yoked, especially if this girl thinks we are going to go anywhere. Its not up to me – If she doesn’t want to change, then we will break up and I will find someone who is right for me and has their sight set on God Almighty. It’s not a blackmail – its simple math. I need someone who feels the same way about God, and has the same passion of changing their life to be as God-like as you can be while you are on this earth. A Jesus Freak – You can’t force someone to be one. Nothings changed – Conversations have happened.