{"id":712,"date":"2008-05-13T05:04:00","date_gmt":"2008-05-13T05:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jshox.com\/jay\/?p=712"},"modified":"2008-05-13T05:04:00","modified_gmt":"2008-05-13T05:04:00","slug":"712","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jshox.com\/jay\/2008\/05\/13\/712\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/photo.xanga.com\/jshox\/10a66188660482\/photo.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-width:0;\" alt=\"COP\" src=\"http:\/\/x10.xanga.com\/a66c452526433188660482\/z145027301.bmp\" width=\"150\"><\/a> <\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">&#8212; All people are innocent until proven guilty in the court of law &#8212;<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>On today&#8217;s episode we resume with drama.&nbsp; Of course, as our highlights would suggest, we have yelling shouting, Cops, theft and a whole lot of F&#8217;bombs.&nbsp; Sorry, no running from the cops was caught on camera&#8230; this time.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>I started off my Sunday night by going to visit with a friend who I hadn&#8217;t seen in &#8230; almost a year.&nbsp; I got to her apartment at 7:15.&nbsp; I called her to find out where she was at.&nbsp; Down the street, she will only be a few minutes.&nbsp; So I sit&#8230; patiently waiting&#8230; and waiting and yes waiting.&nbsp; I called her again and she told me she was having a bad day- but would be on the way shortly.&nbsp; Okay.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>I was waiting, looking at her door.. and it was soooo entertaining.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>You should try it.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/photo.xanga.com\/jshox\/1f850188660955\/photo.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-width:0;\" alt=\"051108_2014\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/x1f.xanga.com\/850c642b30035188660955\/z145027730.jpg?w=400\" ><\/a> <\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Twenty minutes later, I&#8217;m starting to get annoyed.&nbsp; I called her, no answer- so I left a message telling her she had 10 minutes to show up.&nbsp; She calls me crying.. saying she needs more time.&nbsp; I wait.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>So after waiting outside her apartment for&nbsp;over an hour, at&nbsp;8:30 she arrived.&nbsp; Walking up to me she lets me know she had just broken up with her boyfriend of a couple months.&nbsp; Oh joy..&nbsp;&nbsp; Okay.&nbsp; I get it.. it&#8217;s cool.&nbsp; She needs to vent.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>We go inside her apartment to find out that her ex-boyfriend (who is the father of her two kids) has not brought them home yet.&nbsp; She explains she gave him a key to her place just today so he could drop the kids off when he was done.&nbsp; Frantically she starts to pace around looking in her apartment.&nbsp; She notices her DVD&#8217;s are missing and DVD players.&nbsp; She picks up the phone and calls the police.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>After calling the cops out, she talks to me about how she can&#8217;t believe this is happening to her.&nbsp; He has stolen stuff from her before, but she didn&#8217;t think it would happen again.&nbsp; Yeah, she knows he does Crystal Meth, but.. he wouldn&#8217;t do this again.&nbsp; Plus its her kids father- she doesn&#8217;t want him in trouble.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>At this point her recent ex-boyfriend calls to get his friends bike back.&nbsp; She explains to him what is going on, but he doesn&#8217;t care &#8211; he wants out of her life.&nbsp; She gets so upset over this, she bring the bike inside and tells him that she doesn&#8217;t know where it is.&nbsp; He got upset and stormed over to her apartment.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>So now.. it gets fun.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>We have the ex-boyfriend outside, knocking on the door (and no she won&#8217;t answer) wanting his friends bike back.&nbsp; Her kids are still missing and stuff has been stolen from her place.&nbsp; What a great situation I stepped into.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>After a while of this standoff I talk her out of being stupid and causing any further drama for herself and coax her into giving him the bike.&nbsp; Hooray.&nbsp; One thing done.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>He leaves and she is more upset about him not caring than&nbsp;about her kids being missing than her kids being missing.&nbsp; Oi vey..<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Then the father of the kids shows up.&nbsp; Drops the kids off and gives her the key back.&nbsp; She storms up to him and proceeds to verbally attack him, using most of the swear words I know of.&nbsp; That is quite a list. haha..&nbsp; He didn&#8217;t want anymore of it, he went out of the apartment.&nbsp; She dashed after him to get his licence plate number&#8230; but he got away too quickly.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Her mom arrives at the house and shortly after this (and some three hours after she placed the call) the cops arrived.&nbsp; They took down as much information as they could and went on their way.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Then I spent about 20 minutes talking with her before I left.. because I had work the next morning.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Wow, just drama.&nbsp; Full of it and I realized I never &#8212; ever&#8230; ever want to have any way shape or form.. even a remanence of what she has.&nbsp; It also (for the first time in a long time) made me glad I was single.&nbsp; I was reeling from the whole thing the rest of the night.&nbsp; I couldn&#8217;t really stop thinking about all of it.. and I hardly got any sleep.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>just Pray.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8212; All people are innocent until proven guilty in the court of law &#8212; On today&#8217;s episode we resume with drama.&nbsp; Of course, as our highlights would suggest, we have yelling shouting, Cops, theft and a whole lot of F&#8217;bombs.&nbsp; Sorry, no running from the cops was caught on camera&#8230; this time. 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