{"id":1214,"date":"2011-10-16T20:57:31","date_gmt":"2011-10-17T03:57:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jshox.com\/?p=1214"},"modified":"2011-10-16T20:57:31","modified_gmt":"2011-10-17T03:57:31","slug":"an-afterthought","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jshox.com\/jay\/2011\/10\/16\/an-afterthought\/","title":{"rendered":"An Afterthought"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hey<\/p>\n

So how is everyone? It’s still warm outside but other than the temps things seem to be fine.<\/p>\n

I had an annoyance today. Maryia was on the phone with her friend and comes out with a calendar in her hand. She asks if we are busy at the end of the month. Upon further explanation she says that she was planning on visiting her friend in NY state during those days. After checking we confirm that there is a dinner we are going to otherwise that time was free. She replies that she will text her friend and ask her if other dates will work.<\/p>\n

And it begins. So with what I’ve said you can see a plan had already been made for those dates without asking myself any thoughts on it. Tentative or not. That’s fine and dandy. I wouldn’t have been annoyed if say this were brought up differently and if her friend didn’t already make plans for those dates.<\/p>\n

Anyway. It winded up being a semi-small event and I told her any time she picked was fine with me. I just wish she would have talked about it with me first. Sometimes I guess it just seems like she makes plans and checks later if they’re alright. Not sure how to explain it. It doesn’t happen all of the time, but when it does it bugs me.<\/p>\n

Alas, at the end of the month she will be off to NY state.<\/p>\n

Yep.<\/p>\n

Other than that.. there hasn’t been a whole lot going on. I’ve stopped job searching as I am semi in limbo for places to look… and I don’t have the skill set to demand places to hold a job for me… even if I may have once been able to do as much, I lost all of that with the fall of the economy.<\/p>\n

I have had time to revamp: [{ SkySail Photography<\/a> }]\u00a0 so you should check it out. I think it turned out nicely.<\/p>\n

That’s all I have for this time.<\/p>\n

just Pray<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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